Anonymous asked: I'm going throught puberty and getting hair in my vagina. And I cut It. Is that a good thing or not?
Um, it’s neither a good or bad thing. It really won’t effect you much either way because it’s mostly just an aesthetic thing. It’s completely up to you what you want to do with your body hair.
~Mia
Anonymous asked: I have seen kids go on omegle and pretend theier age for getting horney. Is that safe?
Like, minors going on and pretending to be older?
That’s hard to say. From the minor’s perspective, some people develop mentally sooner than others, so to them it’s no big deal. To them it might just be like looking for porn (which is illegal, but practically harmless). I mean, we can deny that teens have sexuality until we all go blue in the face, but that doesn’t change that fact that teens are going to do whatever they want to when they are unsupervised. It’s kind of a fact of life. However, I can’t really condone it because it can be dangerous for other people because you could easily be accused of viewing child pornography. Plus, there’s always that lingering fear of sexual predators on the internet (I know you’re rolling your eyes, but they are real y’all). Also, from personal experience as a former teen who got in trouble for sexting and sending n00dz to my high school sweetheart, I can honestly say that it was not a very smart decision. Teens can often be impulsive, and don’t always think through the consequences. When my parents caught me, I had my phone taken away from me and they threatened to call the cops on my boyfriend because I was under 18. Plus I had to live down the embarrassment of my parents seeing pictures of me naked and posing. I was lucky that my boyfriend didn’t break up with me and spread the pictures around (which happens at every high school, practically).
So yeah, kids on the internet should be careful.
~Mia
Anonymous asked: is going on omegle and turn myslef on with guys touching thier dicks and getting horney considered a vrgin or not? and having sex chat
It’s up to you to decide two things:
1) You get to define what being a virgin means. It’s completely subjective. If you think chat sex counts as having sex, then you can decide how you want to label yourself.
2) If virginity even means anything to you. Because it’s a subjective social construct, virginity is only important if you give personal meaning to it.
~Mia
Anonymous asked: Loving this blog! I have a question though, is it safe to have vaginal intercourse right after anal? Like, my bad for being all graphic, but if I'm having sex with my partner and he pulls out of my ass and sticks it in my vagina? Will I get any terrible infections or anything? Thanks!
Although most rumors spread about the dangers of sexual contact with anuses are decidedly untrue scare tactics, this one is actually true. Because vaginal tissue is prone to all sorts of sensitivities, the risk of bacterial vaginitis is pretty high when E. Coli bacteria from the rectum gets in there. Some people can go a2v without any problems, but if you’re prone to vaginal irritation or infections, I would definitely either switch condoms (if you’re using them) or go v2a instead.
-Ace
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In honor of Nation Masturbation Month, I’m giving away some free sex toys and accessories!
I will be giving away some of the excess toys I have from EdenFantasys. One person will receive the grand prize including:- 1 “Pleasure Petals” pink cylindrical vibe
- 1 purple knobbed toy sleeve
- 2 Dental dams
- 1 Silicone Finger Bunny Vibe
- 1 mini H2O Peach flavored lube
- 1 Condom Case*
- 1 condom lollipop
- 1 Single-use packet of toy cleaner
- Variety Pack of Condoms2 People will receive the second prize for female-bodied people including:
- 1 Adjustable vibrating egg bullet
- 1 single-use packet of lube
- 1 Condom Case*
- 1 Dental dam
- 1 Variety Pack of Condoms2 people will receive the second prize for male-bodied people, including:
- 1 vibrating cock/toy ring
- 1 single-use packet of lube
- 1 Condom Case*
- 1 “Cum Kleen” wipe (Mango)
- 1 Variety Pack of condomsTo enter to win one of these prizes, you must 1) Follow me, 2) Reblog this, and 3) comment on your reblogged post whether you prefer the male-bodied or female-bodied themed packs. Giveaway winners will be picked on May 31st. Thanks!
*Condom Case color may differ
I’ve been very busy and haven’t been able to keep up with Toys on Tuesday for the past couple of weeks, but I’m reviving it today! If you don’t already know, I’m a blogger for EdenFantasys, where you can find great sex toys and awesome promotions, along with a great online sex-positive community, and I do weekly (or close enough) toy reviews and share them here.
Today I will be reviewing the Caged Heat Cami and Thing Set
I’ve had my eye on this cami set for quite some time, actually. As a sadist/top, I’m always looking for cheap, sexy, non-leather alternative to traditional top wear. This set fits all three of those categories. The material is 80% Polyester and 20% Spandex, so it’s very stretchy and accommodating, which is good because the largest size they offered was an XL (14-16), and I usually wear a size 18. I was worried that it wouldn’t fit, because lingerie has a tendency to run smaller than predicted, but I had no problem at all. I was also worried that my boobs wouldn’t look good in the top (too small, too large, too wonky), but they looked just fine. The size chart says it’s meant for a D/E cup, but I my B cups did A-Ok in them. My nipples pop out occasionally, but given the situation I’m in when I’m wearing it, it’s not an issue for me. The cage generally does wel staying flat and not getting all bunched up or anything. The choker at the top is not tight, and stretchy like the rest of the piece, so you have some wiggle room. The thong fits nicely, and has nice detailing around the top, giving it a double-strap look, which is a simple but sexy addition to the piece. The outside of the top and thong have a plastic-y coating on them to give them the wet look, without being actual leather. It is dry clean only, so you want to be careful with what kinds of things you get on it, and you most definitely do not want to put it in the dryer, because that will ruin the plastic coating on the outside.
I’d really recommend this set to anyone looking for a great, super sexy and chic alternative to traditional leather outfits. I use it for BDSM roleplaying, but it’s also just a very sexy outfit in general. It’s very breathable, stretchy, and comfortable. Plus, it’s relatively cheap compared to other articles of clothing like it, at only $39.99 (and even cheaper if you take advantage of the great Mother’s Day Sale going on at EdenFantasys for this week only!). But I don’t think I need to tell you what a great cami set this is, just look at the picture! It’s absolutely stunning, and goes well with other accessories and clothing, such as under a corset, with bondage gear, or with other kinky underwear.
sorry for anyone who saw that last post. damn these multiple blogs!
-ace
As a blogger for EdenFantasys, I get a lot of great deals and freebies. Now I want to share them with you. Here’s how you get three free toys for just the cost of shipping:
1) Subscribe to their newsletter. This will get you a cute little silicone vibe for free! It’s a simple cylindrical vibe, pink, with little flowers on it.
2) Get your free silicone finger bunny. It’s on the front page of the website, left hand side at the top, in purple. These come free with any order.
3) Select a free gift. You can choose from a t-shirt, cock ring, sanitary toy wipes, a calendar, a tote bag, or a Wet safe sex kit.
Then, checkout, pay the shipping and handling, then voila! Congrats on your new toys.
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Today’s toy review is for one of the most simple, yet innovative toys I’ve received in a while: the Interchangeable Crop Top Riding Crop.
This crop is amazing because it features 3 interchangeable crop tops which combine functionality with aesthetic. The crop tops include one regular black crop, one purple heart, and one red hand. The tops are all faux-leather, and the stem of the crop is metal with a plastic handle and stap, and cord detail near the top.
My biggest fear was that the tops would not stay on during play because of the fact that they are removable, but when I used it, I realized that is not the case. The tops fit snugly on the top and won’t come off unless pulled off. It is a sturdy crop, so you don’t have to worry about it falling apart on you any time soon. It’s also light, so you don’t wear your arms out during play.
They each have different levels of function, which is neat since I thought the difference would just be aesthetic. The purple heart provides the best sting, since it is the widest and flattest top. The red hand provides the least amount of sting, and has more of a thud feeling to it. The regular black crop top is a happy medium.
I’d recommend this crop to both beginners and those with more experience. It is an easy-to-use, intuitive crop which is both stylish and functional. A beginner would have no trouble learning with this crop, and it’s versatility and chicness would add flare to any experienced domme/dom’s collection.
Maintenance for this crop is low. If it needs to be washed for any reason, I think a quick wipe down with a wet wipe or toy cleaner would be sufficient. Packaging, as noted in the pictures above, is simple but not exactly discreet. Storing it might prove to be the only set back on this crop, as it is long and hard to store in a drawer or smaller trunk, but you also want to make sure you store the tops together so you don’t lose them.
Overall, this is a great crop and I’d really recommend it to anyone looking for a fun BDSM toy that is cute, functional, easy to use, and decently priced. I’ve been impressed by this crop, and I think you will be too.
Crop by SportsheetsMaterial: Faux-Leather
